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What to expect from a one-to-one session with a training medium (i.e. moi).



This is what you can expect when you have agreed to do a one-to-one training session with me:


Training session - I am a training medium, which means that I will need to hold at least 40 sessions over a very long period of time. Focus of the session is only to link with your loved ones who have passed on to the other side. I cannot guarantee that anyone will come through as I am in deed a training medium. :) I do not charge for the session. The only thing I ask in return is that you fill in a feed-back form and send it directly to my supervising Medium Teacher per email or post. I will provide you with the contact details and the feed-back form before the session. This is preferably done as soon as the session is over as you may forget some of it afterwards. Some sessions are emotional and therefore, you may not remember everything. (Eh.....and if nothing comes out of a session, I suppose there would be no reason to fill in a form.) The session lasts about 40-45 minutes and can be done via Facetime Messenger; Teams meeting; telephone call and/or a meeting in person. Important to note is that I do not want to know anything in advance, no names or people who have passed over. Nothing. It works best for me if I do not know anything in advance. -AND NO I do not google you beforehand as it would completely take away my own learning experience. I have nothing to prove and all I want to do is to learn more about becoming a good medium so that I can help.


No guest list - Nor can I choose which one of your loved ones that you get a message from. It is common that a person who is grieving only really wants to hear from a particular loved one and may therefore get disappointed if that loved one does not come through. In a way, one could say that I work for spirit world as well as for the "sitter" i.e. you coming to see me. I trust that whoever comes through is meant to come through. Ooookay, before you go and get your crosses and crucifixes out, I only ever believe in contact with loved ones who have passed on who have something loving to communicate. I do not believe in monsters, evil spirits or anything else of the sort. It simply does not exist in my world or imagination.


Before the session - At this stage of my training, I can still feel totally unsure of my ability right up until the training session starts. ("Eh what if NOTHING comes through today. What if I disappoint the person...what if.... what if.") Ok, so it does not matter that 9 out of 10 sessions have passed successfully, I still suffer from this amnesia before I am about to have a session. Why? Because I really truly want to help the sitter and I want to help bring about some kind of healing. But the main thing here is that whatever comes through is meant to come through at that time and I can of course only do my best. Nothing more. I just want to jump over this entire amnesia phase and be a fully fledged Medium with super duper confidence before each session. Then again, this is the stage where I learn to work through my own fear of failure and I am grateful for every minute that I can help someone (with or without my insecurities) to bring about some kind of healing. Oh, and there is nothing you need to do before the session. Just sit back and relax. I normally prepare myself about 20-30 minutes before each session starts.


During the session - I do a simple relaxing exercise with light and nice loving energies. I set the arena with the intention for the session. Before my eyes I get the green colour when I am "hooked up". Normally at this point, pictures start coming through of whether there is a man or woman wanting to communicate. I may get pictures of clothes they used to wear and/or what they looked like. This is tricky though because some have presented themselves what they looked like when they were in their prime years. (I mean wouldn´t we all do that! :)). So the age they are shown are not necessarily the age they passed over. To ensure that this is a link that you can understand, I will ask "can you understand/recognise this?" The point is that if you cannot, then the link must be let go off. We do not "fish" for information, meaning, ask for further details of the person coming through. All you need to say is "yes" I can understand that. There are times when a grandfather´s father have come through and of course it was diffiult for the sitter to confirm all the information. Then I simply relayed the pictures coming through and the sitter returned to me after the session to confirm.


New language and signs - Sometimes, I hear "grandmother" or a vague name beginning with a letter. In such case, I only relay what I hear. They show me different moves and gestures to let me know who they are with. So, for example in one session, the grandmother communicated a picture of her holding someone next to her who was kind of lower down than her. I also got the first letter of that person´s name. I thought that it could be a child but it turned out that it was her adult son who had also passed over. It was a clever move though to depict that it was her son. Please also bear with me because it is like learning a foreign language, or sign language and all mediums seem to have their own symbols. So, not only do I not have a dictionary for this spirit language, but it is being developed as we go along! Trial and error kind off. This means that I can actually interpret signs the wrong way or in a vague way. I can also sometimes see a shadow where I "feel" who the person was and the relation with the sitter. This happened once where the spirit stood very close on the sitter´s left side (from my opposite). I felt that it was a husband who had passed away. He relayed strong loving and emotional feelings that I could feel right through my own body. It was hard not to cry. He also showed me a letter of the person´s name he wanted the sitter to pass on a greeting to. This was a personal one-to-one sitting and it became very tangible and emotional. Digital sessions are good but the sessions in person are different somehow. In the future, I would like to learn more about getting names and getting more specific messages like the practising mediums often get. (Ok, again reminder, I am in training.)


After the session - We wind down in a calm and relaxing way and you will then fill in the form as honestly as you can. Feed-back is good for me so that I can develop. It is good if you provide feed-back to me at the end of the session as well as in the feed-back form. Please note that I will not see the completed form as you send it to my Medium Teacher. I ask that you please send it within a few days from the end of the session so that my progress can be monitored correctly.


As the best sessions are those where I have no or very little prior knowledge, a second session is probably not to be recommended unless of course there are others out there that you wish to communicate with.


How do you book? - Since I work full-time as a lawyer and running my own law firm, I must pace myself (see my post of 12 February 2022). Therefore, I now have a queue of people who would like to have a one-to-one session with me (nice). So, I agree and book when I feel that I am ready and relaxed enough to link with spirit. So, you can please email me to express an interest and when the time is right, we may have a session. Please do not write anything about yourself or who you really want to communicate with- no information at all apart from how to contact you (email) and if you have been recommended to come to me by someone I know. I need to put in a disclaimer here though; I will need to reassure myself that the person who has booked a session is genuine. Therefore, I currently only take bookings from recommendations.


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